You want marriage counseling, but your spouse refuses to take part. Many times it doesn?t mean he/she doesn?t care about your relationship. It may mean your spouse
- doesn?t think counseling will work
- has had bad experiences in the past with counseling
- is uncomfortable or afraid to go for counseling.
Don?t despair! Internationally renowned marriage therapist Michele Weiner-Davis assures ?You can affect relationship change single-handedly.?
Marriage counseling with one person not only can work, but also often is more effective than having both spouses present. A counselor trained in helping relationships heal knows how to ask questions to bring out both his and her sides of the story and teach effective tools the spouse attending counseling can successfully use to mend hurting relationships.
So seek out a counselor trained to work successfully to help your relationship with one or both spouses present. Invite your spouse to attend counseling with you. If he/she says ?no,? stop yourself from forcing the issue and accept the answer gracefully. This alone can move your relationship in the right direction.
Learn more by watching this 5-minute video segment Save Your Marriage: It Takes One to Tango, by Weiner-Davis now.
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Source: http://creatinghealthyrelationships.wordpress.com/2012/10/30/marriage-counseling-with-one-spouse/
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